Gentlemen, and How Do You Spend Your Energy?

How are you voting with your energy? What do you want in life? Also, what are your highest values? Is having the right people around you important to you? Hence how often do you do what it takes to cultivate having the right people around you? Is connection a high value of yours? How often do you therefore choose to connect with others?

Think of spending your energy in the same way as you spend money.

If you spend your energy on something, you’re voting to have more of that in your life. If you choose companions or “escorts” who you don’t feel absolutely right about from the start or, worse, whom you don’t feel anything about, you’ve given them your vote to stay in business and continue spreading their malices. And what vote have you given to yourself? What mental environments are you creating with how you spend your energy? Do you focus on peacefulness, connection, fulfillment, or gratefulness? Or do you spend energy on indifference, impulsive instant gratification, bearing grudges, or boosting your ego?

You are living with your energy all the time. 

Notice what your internal voice most often tells or shouts at you. Do you always expect an average treatment? Clinical blank attitude? Superficial “service” from another “escort”? The next one being the same as the one yesterday? Is there not much between them all? Creativity can be certainly a drawback if that is your indication – or if the social conditioning has left that imprint on you. You can live much of your life in a horror movie – complete with special effects! 

Or you can choose to spend your vital juice on… 

creating positive states of mind and doing better things for yourself. Instead of chasing seedy “escorts” you can direct your energy on finding a high end companion who adds value and whom you can trust. Whenever you consider something, ask yourself ‘does it lead to happiness?’. When you are happy, you are more inclined to be generous and loving to others. And others will be the same to you. So by tending to your thoughts and creating your happiness you will be serving the greater good as well. And if this seems more easily said than done, I can help you get it done as easily as it is said.