Find a Companion, Not a Disaster

To find a companion can be as exhausting as dating, and perhaps even more so. This is because the prevailing attitude is that because you’re paying, you expect to get the perfect person and experience and the person whom you pay will be perfect on demand. If the person and experience do not turn out to be perfect, isn’t that upsetting? So how can you, the searching man, shorten the costly process of trial and error? And how can you learn to prevent getting it wrong more times than getting it right? 

When you go shopping 
for any high cost item, such as a car, house, yacht, or jet, you won’t buy the first one you find without looking at the specs. You’ll know what features you want the item to have. You’ll then do thorough research and certainly question the salesman accordingly. So why not apply the same principle to find a companion for your special moments? A companion can cost just as much as cars, houses, yachts, or jets in the long term. And if a man buys an item with specs that make the item right for him, it makes sense to apply the same principle to find a companion. Isn’t the interpersonal dynamic just as important, especially if a man wishes to get intimate with his companion?

Acting on impulse can be dangerous
I often wonder how men can be courageous enough to make their choices based solely on instinctual impulse rather than on a combination of instinct and informed decision in this age of scams, conartistry, and ripoff worldwide in every sphere of life – especially in that of companionship! If I were to look for any item, I’d definitely read the ad, product description, and do thorough research on the service and its sellers.

But the vast majority of men doesn’t pay attention to what women say about themselves in directory listings and on their websites. This lack of attention can be even more insidious, because if a man doesn’t care about who he goes with, he can get into dangerous situations. After all, you don’t know who you’re about to engage with! Is she an addict to something? Is she trafficked? Does she even know that her ad is on the listing where you saw it? Or has her pimp listed her without her knowledge? Do you want to finance human trafficking?

How can men find a companion instead of a disaster?
NEVER assume from experience that every companion’s website has empty promises. A handful are very informative and written with the essence of this article in mind! The challenge is to find them.
Always be present in the moment when you find a directory listing you like. Sharpen your senses, focus on the listing, and read what it states when you’ve finished admiring the pictures. Then evaluate the information and start asking for additional information.
Write things down. Visual information is the most reliable!
Find a companion and stick with her
The benefit = you’ll be able to choose exactly who and what you want and what and why you don’t. Happy searching! Practise on my website – and you can always let me know how you got on!